Rant blog

Hooray! It's another classic Rant Blog from Amy.

I know I said that I wouldn't be using this blog for rant blogs, that I would save those for Myspace. However, this is something that has been picking away at my brain for a while now, and something happened that I can't keep it inside anymore. This is a serious rant blog, though. After the intro, this is going to turn into a letter to my friend. I don't know if she will ever read it.

One of the things that pisses me off more than anything is stupid women. Stupid, dumb ass women, who let asshole men walk all over them.

Now, don't get me wrong. I love men. Oh, yes I do. So, don't get the ultra wrong impression that I'm some sort of man hating lesbian, because I am **SO** not. And, this isn't an anti-men blog. It's actually an anti-asshole men blog, but more importantly, an anti-certain type of woman blog.

I hate the women that don't think that they can live through life without a man. The ones that think that they need a man to be happy. The ones that jump from bad relationship to bad relationship, just to have the company of a man.

Honey, you don't need a man to be happy, make you happy, keep you happy, keep you sane, help you live life, or anything like that. It's a little something called self reliance, which far too few people seem to have these days.

But, what I hate even more than that type of woman, is a woman who has a uber horrible relationship with King Asshole of Infected Rectum City (who, incidentally treats her like ass, no pun intended... or maybe it was intended. Not important here), SEES the problem, ADMITS the problem, COMPLAINS about the problem, CRIES about the problem, TALKS ABOUT SOLVING THE PROBLEM, but NEVER DOES A DAMN THING ABOUT IT.

Whenever I hear about a woman in this situation, I do feel bad for her at first. Women are very emotional, caring, loving creatures, which I think are both the best and worst qualities about our sex.

However, I stop feeling bad for her after the umpteenth time I hear her say how she's going to fix the problem. Or how he has until suchandsuch a date to straighten up, or he's gone. Or, how "NEXT TIME" is the last time.

The problem with this type of woman is that there is always a "next time". This date always gets pushed forward until the next one. The problem never gets fixed. She just keeps having a relationship with the asshole, allowing him to take advantage of her more and more. She's just digging her hole/grave deeper and deeper.

Dear Friend,

Damnit, woman, why can't you stand up yourself and be the strong chick that I know you can be? Don't you understand that you are under absolutely NO obligation to this asshole? There are only TWO people in your life that should be your priority right now. Your child and yourself.

Stand up, and show your daughter and yourself that you are a strong, powerful woman, who don't take shit from nobody.

Don't let your daughter grow up in this environment and think that it's perfectly normal for men to take advantage of women, and treat them like crap. You have to take the step and show her that women are strong beings that deserve to be placed on a pedestal, and respected.

Don't you understand that if you don't stop this now, THIS WILL HAPPEN! Your daughter will find herself in horrible relationships similar to the one you are in now! If her husband or boyfriend steals from her, she will think that it is fine; that there is nothing that can be done about it. She will think that it is normal for her husband or boyfriend to treat her like shit. She will think it is absolutely fine that her life is crap because of her husband or boyfriend.

And, I know that your relationship isn't to the point that I am about to touch on. I pray that isn't isn't like this. But, even worse, she will think that it is perfectly normal for her husband or boyfriend to beat her up after a hard day at work. She will think that it is fine for him to rape her when she is not in the mood. Even worse, she will think that she somehow deserves ithis type of treatment. She will think that it is her fault, and that she is to blame.

I beg you to take a stand right now, and not let this happen to your precious, beautiful child. I swear, friend, I am crying as I am writing this, because I do not want your beautiful child to have this grim future.

I say that I don't feel sorry for you anymore. I say that I can't feel sorry for you anymore. But, the emotions that I am feeling while writing this show myself that that is not true. While we are not best fiends, you are my friend, and I do care about you, and I do love you. Even though I haven't seen your child since she was a day old, I deeply care about her, and I do love her too.

You know that I am always there for you, if you ever need me for anything. If you ever need help leaving this asshole, I will be there for you, and will do whatever it takes to help you out. You have many caring, loving friends that I know will do the same.

Please be strong, friend. Look deep into your heart and soul, and do what you need to do to take care of yourself and your child. I know that you can do it, because you are a strong, beautiful woman.

If you read this, I don't know if you will never speak to me again, or even hate me. But, if this letter gives you even a small push towards making your life better, it will all have been worth it.